"All-in-One: How to Know Who You Are,
and Be Who You Are"

“It is a lot easier to get along with others if you know which of the 4 Types of People you are dealing with!”
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From: The Office of Dr. Andrew D. Atwood, Marriage and Family Therapist
Re: Using the Myers Briggs to work with others, including your spouse.
Date:

Greetings . . . and Welcome!

We all know what it is like to be really confused about what makes somebody else “tick.”

  • Maybe it is your husband, or your wife
  • Or a business associatate
  • A Child
  • Somebody in your extended family like a
    • Parent
    • Brother or sister
    • Or and Inlaw

People make sense once you understand the simple, yet profound works of Myers and Briggs.

We have separate eCourses for all 4 Types of People, as you probably already know.

Each has been developed so an individual can get to know them self a whole lot better. To complete just one course effectively will take some hours, if not days.

  • There is a 50 item questionnaire about individual preferences unique to each type of person
  • Another questionnaire with 40 items about each individual’s preferred way of relating to others

Then, there is a list of questions that are meant to be answered by the reader. Each question is carefully crafted around two theoretical frameworks.

  • Tri-Modal Structuring, developed by the late Marriage and Family Therapist Albert DeVoogd, which is an integrative model for understanding and working with people in relationships.
  • The 4 Quadrant Model developed by philospher Ken Wilber, which can be found in his book A Theory of Everything

No, this isn’t heady stuff that is meant to confuse you. Rather, it is all presented in a simple format:

  • The questions are presented
  • You take some time to reflect
  • And then you journal your answer

Remember, the 4 Types of People have 4 different sets of questionnaires, and each Type will certainly answer the questions differently based on their different temperaments.

The “All-In-One” eCourse for all
4 Types of People combines them all.

  • 8 Questionnaires
    • Each Type’s own 50 item questionnaire about each Types personal preferences for living in the world
    • Each Type’s own 40 item questionnaire about each types personal preferences for relating to others
    • A Tailored list of questions that will help you to look at yourself, and others.

Take our QUICK QUIZ.

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Type, and
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Get a rough idea of which of the 4 Types you are, and which Type your partner is.

If you are different, consider purchasing the “All-In-One” eCourse for all 4 Types of People so that you can learn not just about yourself, but also about your spouse.

It is a money saver, too!

Separately you would spend $29.95 for each, times 4, equals about $120.00.

The “All-In-One” eCourse for All 4 Types is yours for only $49.95

Take the mystery out of your partner’s behavior.

In fact, take the mystery out of your own behavior!

A map is useful for any journey, and the journey you are taking alone, or with your partner, will make much more sense if you have a deep understand of what makes each of you tick.

Understanding your “Type” will build intimacy
between you.

It will reduce needless conflict.

It will increase greater appreciation and acceptance.

You can use this eCourse to explain yourself to your partner.

Want your partner to understand you better?

You can complete this eCourse and simply sit down with your partner and have him, or her, read it over with you. I can be a terrific conversation starter.

You can understand yourself better, and you can help your lover to understand you much more deeply.

And, obviously, you can understand your partner just as intimately.

You can’t change someone’s basic personality.

What you can change are Attitudes and Actions because they are volitional. That is, there are choices involved in the Attitudes we have, and the Actions we take.

We get to choose the thoughts behind our attitudes, and the reasoning behind our actions.

But what we just can’t change is your personality, or your partner’s.

“So,” you are wondering, “what am I supposed to do?
Just live with it?”


If your partner is trying to change your personality, it probably won’t work.

And if you are trying to change your partner’s personality, that probably won’t work either.

What will work is this . . .

  • You can learn about who you each are.
  • You can come to understand who you each are.
  • You can appreciate each other for who you really are.
  • You can focus on the positives.
  • You can get beyond the negatives.

Stephen Covey in his classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, identifies habit #5 as, “It’s more important to understand than it is to be understood.” What terrific wisdom! No wonder he has sold over 15 million copies. I have been teaching the 7 Habits to corporate and therapy clients since 1992 with great success.

You can purchase OUR BEST OFFER, How To Know Who You Are, And Be Who You Are, the 62 page “All-In-One eCourse for All 4 Types of People” by clicking on the purchase button below.

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“The odds for effective change increase dramatically once you understand which of the 4 Types of People you are, and which is your partner!”

And, of course, if you are struggling along the way you can always email me with your questions.

I wish you and your partner all the best!

Sincerely yours,

Dr. Andrew D. Atwood
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Certified Social Worker
Clinical Member, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

Don’t Forget!
  • Change happens through an ordered process and my eBook, You Can Save Your Marriage, will walk you through the process of change.
  • We have “Tailored Tools and Advice” for all 4 Types of People.
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